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Prayer To Heal Narcissism

All-Powerful Father, I pray for those who are battling narcissism in their lives. Help them overcome, by the power of the cross, their prideful focus on themselves. Help them to see that there is so much more this world has to offer than just caring about themselves. Help them to understand that they are not putting God first in their lives. When Your Son called the crowd to Him with his disciples, He said that if anyone would come after Him, let them deny himself and take up his cross and follow Him. Speak to them, Father, and show them that there is more to gain in following You than in seeking what this world has to offer. Only You can reveal the ultimate good that can free them, Lord. Please help them now. Amen.

The continuity of our relationship with God is facilitated by our prayer life. 

When we pray, we allow God to do His work in and through us because we are making ourselves vulnerable to Him. Praying also strengthens our connection to God. 

We learn more about a person through conversation and interaction. The same process takes place when we talk to God in prayer. Spending more time in conversation with Him is the surest way to become closer to Him.

As it says in James 4:8, “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you” (NKJV).

Prayer To Heal Narcissism

Almighty God, teach me to see myself as You see me. Help me to recognize my worth in Your eyes, not through the lens of pride or vanity, but as a beloved child of the King. Merciful Lord, I trust in Your promises. Grant me the strength to walk away from unhealthy relationships and situations that foster my narcissism.

Many times in my own life, I have experienced the peace that passes all understanding when I have drawn near to God in prayer.

Praying helps me center my thoughts on what’s most important. Praying gives us a divine perspective on life and is therefore crucial. A member of my youth group passed away suddenly. Finding effective ways to love and minister to our wounded students has been challenging. The power of prayer has sustained me through this difficult period. It has helped me communicate with God, hear His voice, and experience His presence while I grieve alongside my church and community.

Be worried about nothing, but in everything, through prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (NKJV).

Praying puts us in a position to experience God’s peace, which is beyond our comprehension. Prayer keeps my mind on the things that are dear to God, both in the happy times and the bad.

How To Rebuke A Narcissist

Wise Counselor, I pray for Your wisdom as I confront my loved one, Jesus. He has given in to every whim of selfish desire and has become a narcissist. I need the right words to say when I speak to him, Jesus, to show him the folly of his ways. Use me as Your vessel and speak Your truth through me in a way that he will understand. Open his spiritual ears so that Your message convicts him of his sinfulness and he repents. In Your all-knowing name, I pray, Amen.

Prayer for Guidance About Whether to Stay or Walk Away
Precious Holy Spirit, please quiet my mind so I can hear Your whispers. I want to rest in Your peace and see Your path for my life. I have been vulnerable and hurt over and over by someone who only loves and worships himself. I have been used. I have been trampled upon. Speak to me, Holy Spirit. Tell me if I should continue praying for the patience and strength to stay in this relationship. Or tell me if I should break off our connection and stop the harm caused by his arrogant, controlling, and belittling behavior. I surrender to You. I am in Your hands. Amen.

Prayer for Curing Someone’s Narcissism
Jesus, the Great Physician, You say that we should do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. You say that to fear the Lord is to hate pride and arrogance. My loved one is a narcissist, and I pray that You do the impossible and cure him. Show him just how hollow and empty the self-centered life really is. Give him the remedy of humility and grace he needs. Teach him to forsake himself and seek what is best for others rather than what is best for himself. Jesus, You were the perfect example of humility and I believe You can change my loved one’s heart, even now. In Your healing name, I pray, Amen.

Prayer for Witnessing to a Narcissist
Abba, Father, fill me with faithfulness so I may be an example of humility to my loved one. He has clearly shown that he is a narcissist. Lord, please help me live my life in such a way as to testify to the power of Your goodness and grace. Help me to be humble, gentle, and patient. Help me to decrease, Lord, and You to increase in this situation. Work through me to make my loved one see the error of his ways and seek Your will for his life. Use me to remind him that it was You who created hundreds of billions of galaxies. It was You that multiplied loaves of bread and fish out of thin air. It was You who parted the Red Sea and who brings the dead to life. Through Your mighty power, use me as Your vessel to show him Your majesty, Father. Use me as Your instrument to show him that You are in control of his life. Amen.

Prayer for Salvation for a Narcissist
O God of my Salvation, I pray that You save my loved one. He is so focused on himself, Lord, that he believes the world truly revolves around him. Help me not to judge him, Lord, but to earnestly pray for his salvation. Only You can save his soul and save him from himself, Lord. You say that the pride of life is not from the Father but is from the world. Humble him, Lord. You say that people will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths. Give him ears to hear, Lord. Stop him from changing what he says is Your truth to suit himself. In Your grace and mercy, open his eyes to his misguided ways and lead him in the path of righteousness. Amen.

Prayer for a Narcissist Husband
Oh, Jesus, my Great Healer, I pray for my husband. He is no longer the person I married. He has been consumed by love for himself. He really is a narcissist, Jesus. Everything is all about him. He no longer cares about the children. He shuts down everything I say and doesn’t even consider it for one minute. The only way our marriage will survive is if You act, Jesus. You say you will tear down the house of the proud. Show him how low he has sunk and pull him up out of the filth of his self-centeredness. Give him ears to listen to Your life-giving reproof so that he despises himself. Fill him with the fear of You, mighty Savior. In Your healing name, I pray, Amen.

Prayer for Forgiving a Narcissist
Merciful and compassionate Lord, You say not to judge. You say not to condemn. You say we should forgive. Grant me the strength to do these things, Lord. My friend steamrolls me every time I see him. All he thinks about is himself. Help me to see that the problem is bigger than our friendship because he is dealing with an actual illness with his narcissism. Guide me on how to put the hurt he has caused behind me. Fill me with Your grace so that I may walk in Your image and be good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love for my friend who is suffering from this affliction. Show me how to be kind and tenderhearted towards him. Amen.

Prayer for Grace for the Sake of Family Unity
God of blessing, I pray that You protect our family unit and grant us a large portion of grace. We are struggling with how to deal with our narcissistic loved one, and he is harming our family. He is always belittling us and cares only about himself. Open his eyes and help him to see the error of his ways. Purify our hearts so that we glorify You in all that we think, say, and do. Fill our hearts with joy despite the wreckage he creates. Unite the rest of us and help him to join our unity when he has been restored. Amen.

Prayer When Ending Relationship with Narcissist
Lord Jehovah, Self-Existent One, someone I care about is a narcissist. You say that we should not be doormats, and I know I cannot let myself continue to be trampled upon. Give me the courage to sever the relationship and the peace of mind to know that I am doing the right thing. Please heal the hurt he has caused me, and so many others, my healing Savior. I trust that he is in Your almighty hands, Lord. Please protect all those around him from the harm and destruction he causes. I believe in You, Lord. Amen.

How To Spiritually Deal With A Narcissist

Heavenly Father, I am sadden by the constant issues in my life. It hurts me that people don’t understand how they’re hurting me. Father, give me the strength to remain righteous when others accuse me of what they’re doing as well. Help me to love those who hurt me. Help me to bless those who curse me. I surrender to your protection O’ Lord. In you I trust. I will put down my weapons and I will wait on you God. I drop my desire to be powerful, loved, and beautiful. I acknowledge your power God to fill me in my empty spaces. You O’ Lord satisfy my soul. You cause my soul to overflow with goodness. Thank you for being you God. Amen.
Bible References:

“Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.” (John 4:13-15)
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Prayer To See Clearly
Abba father, I am filled with pain, fear, and distrust. Your word says that the heart is wicked and no man can know the depths of it. But you O’ father, you search my heart and know what is within it. I ask for you to purify me and make me aware of what is within me. I thank you for cleansing my soul from impurities, so my thoughts can be good. Then my words won’t be daggers to the one’s I love. O Lord, I desire rivers of living water to come out of my mouth. I desire to speak words that uplift others. Thank you father because you’re helping me to see the world beyond my emotions. You’re helping me to think of others. To you O’ God, I am forever grateful. Amen.

Bible References:

“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalm 139:23-24)
“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? I the Lord search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.” (Jeremiah 17:9-10)
Prayer to Be Humble and Selfless
Search my life for anything that doesn’t align with you God. I desire to love others as I would love myself. I desire to think of others and understand their needs. I thank you for your helping me to get out of my comfort zone and love all around me. Please remove vain self-love, the love of money, boastfulness, arrogance, and unhealthy tendencies. Help me to be a humble and righteous O’ Lord. I desire to imitate Jesus and walk in his authority. O’ Lord, I give you permission to discipline and direct me into the path of meekness. Your word says that those who hunger and thirst for righteousness will be filled. So, I will stand firm in your word. I agree that you will do a wonderful work in my father. Amen.
Bible References:

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” (Ephesians 4:2)
“For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” (Luke 14:11)
“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.” (Romans 12:16)
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Deliverance Prayers for the Mind
El Shaddai, you are the most high God. Who on the earth can I find like you O’ God? You saw me in my sin and you died for me. You cleansed me. You don’t hold my past against me and you are leading me to a greater measure. You are good God. I refuse to let my situation convince me other wise. I refuse to bow down to my feelings and deny that Jesus’ blood was enough for me. I take hold of my authority and I’m standing firm that my mind will be free. “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1)
Related Article: Deliverance Prayers for the Mind

Prayer for Relationship Struggles
Father, it hurts when others can’t understand my pain. I need your help not to be reactive and try to teach them a lesson. I want to avoid Satan’s strategy to cause me to hurt others. So, I submit my weak and fragile heart into your hands. I ask you to protect me and fight for me. Though others may wrong me, I will remain righteous and submit to your plans O’ Lord. You said, I can trust in your goodness, so I believe it. In your proper timing you will make things new. I trust you Abba to protect me. I love you with all my heart and soul. You are the way maker. You give me strength to keep going. You will never put the righteous to shame. I rejoice because you are a majestic and never failing God. Amen.

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